Dear Ricardo: Two New Habits Improved My Life

Inspired by Vincent Van Gogh’s letters in Dear Theo, I write letters to my future self about everyday life and events to be more grateful and mindful.

March 26, 2019

Dear Ricardo,

As you are aware, I’ve been on a kick of self-improvement lately. I have found, among other things, that two recent decisions affected my daily positivity the most. I no longer settle for wearing bad underwear, and I park farther away in parking lots.

Until two weeks ago, I prescribed to the philosophy that the more clothing items I own, the less I need to do laundry (Mom can attest). I still had underwear from seven years ago. Keeping them saved me money and time, I thought. However, I found myself playing favorites. I looked forward to wearing them and strategically wore them on weekends or days I needed an extra boost. See, when I put them on in the morning, it makes me feel good; I know I will have a fantastic day. Why not have that feeling every day? Thus, I bought more and now have eight pairs that make me feel spectacular. Everyday has been amazing since.

Second, I started parking farther away in parking lots. It’s not because I’m worried about others bumping or denting my car (makes me laugh thinking that would be a reason). I realized how foolish it is to keep circling the lot waiting for a close spot to open up. Parking seems so trivial but it’s a real thing! Wander a Costco parking lot and see for yourself. I don’t need that in my life; parking no longer causes angst or stress. I am liberated from the aggression and pettiness. Not only do I avoid the chaos, but I get extra exercise! Good health is something to be thankful for. I’ll leave the spots for others.

I can’t wait to find more ways to make our life better! 🙂

Do you have any small habits that improved your life?